• Divorce Advice - When Marriages Fall Apart

  • A Divorce Can Be Ugly

    Given that a divorce can be ugly, Ronald Sharp  suggests that individuals should plan for it, even before they get married.  That’s rather a cold, cruel way of looking at it.

    • Is Marriage Possible After a Separation

      A positive, proactive and purposeful approach to a separation can allow partners to take the time to find out if their relationship can become more fulfilling.

    • I Don’t Love Your Father Anymore

      What is it you are supposed to say to your children?  You have decided that the marriage you are in isn’t working, and that you will be a happier person by excusing yourself form the relationship.

    • When Divorce Can be a Good Thing

      There are hundreds of reasons, big and small – that can actually make divorce a good thing in your life. But mostly it’s up to you. If you perceive the divorce as the end of the world, it’s going to feel that way.

    • Divorce Does Not Mean You Are a Failure

      IF you are thinking about or facing a divorce, it is especially important to look at the divorce as a time of change.  To look at it as a beginning rather than an end.  Just because two people get divorced doesn’t mean that everything they shared together including the happy times, was all for not.

    • Be Prepared if You Intend to Leave Your Spouse

      In the movies, the classic break-ups normally involve a broken vase, a lot of shouting, some choice words, and a door slamming.  The next scene is then set for two people getting along without one another, living in separate homes and acting as if the marriage never took place at all.  The reality however, is not smooth.

    • Is Marriage Counseling the Beginning of the End of Marriage

      Perhaps one of the biggest problems with marriage counseling, or any form of counseling for that matter is that people often want quick answers.  You want your marriage fixed right now and most people aren’t actually committed to doing the work it takes to make things right again.

    • Do You Want a Divorce

      For many couples, the decision to go through with a divorce is made many years; even decades after all the signs reared their ugly head.  All the signs have been there, and the couple begins co-existing as a separate entities.

  • Guest Article

    Bob Buchicchio
    Robert Buchicchio

    Robert Buchicchio is a licensed clinical social worker who provides couples counseling and specializes in separations. He holds a diplomate from the National Association of Social Workers of which he is former president of the Vermont Chapter. His book, Taking Space – How To Use Separation To Explore The Future of Your Relationship is now available in E-Book.

    Article: Is Marriage Possible After a Separation

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