Withholding Sex – This is Not a Good Idea

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Comments (3)
  1. Trish says:

    Brilliant. Thank you.

  2. Slade says:

    I wish my wife would read this. Our last moment of intimacy was July of 1998 only a year into our marriage. Some time later she said I had been “thoughtless” and she could never forgive me for it. When I apologized for my unintentional thoughtlessness, she refused to tell me what I had done/not-done. Just, “if you don’t know, I’m not going to tell you!” True to her word, to this day I still don’t know my infraction/transgression to justify her withholding all these years. She also stopped helping around the house, so not only do I work hard at my high-pressure career to provide for us, I’ve done all the cooking, cleaning, and maintenance around the home. Marriage can be like a prison sentence, with hard labor and profound lonliness.

    1. Phil H-R says:

      @Slade: Man, you need a new wife! And I don’t say that lightly. You have more than “done your time” for her by the sounds of it. You deserve more respect than she is treating you with.

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