There are as many theories on disciplining a dog as there are dogs. Numerous television shows, articles, and books aim to help distinguish research-based methods from those that “seem like a good idea at the time.” Of course, every individual will develop their own style, belief system, and approach, depending on the unique dog they are trying to communicate with.
Understanding Canine Communication
One of the first basic concepts to consider when disciplining a dog is that, no matter how much we love them, how smart they seem, or how deep our bond is, they are still canines, not humans. Your pup is not a child. While you might feel the urge to explain their behavior with logic and reason, they won’t truly grasp it—no matter how much they wag their tail. Dogs have their own communication system and understanding of the world around them. To truly communicate effectively with your dog, you need to meet them on their level. While this might sound complicated or even mystical, it is actually quite simple once you train yourself to interpret it.
One of the top-rated at-home training programs requires their trainers to attend a six-week seminar in Colorado. For fun, we decided to investigate what the first week of training looks like. They guarantee the dog’s behavior for life, so we asked them to “put their money where their mouth is.” In the first week, new trainers do one simple task: they watch dogs. They observe them from before their eyes open to their playful early days and throughout various stages of maturity. In total, they spend 40 long hours observing how dogs communicate with each other.
What did every group of students discern during this week of “puppy watching”? Regardless of age, status in the pack, or physical condition, all dogs responded to the same simple system of communication.
We’ve all been taught that when our precious pooch messes up, we should scold them with a firm “No.” I’ve been just as guilty of this myself. But recently, I learned that “no” is a completely ineffective word for our dogs because it’s one of the most overused words in human language. “No, I don’t want to.” “I don’t know.” “No, thank you.” With “no” being so frequently used, it’s no wonder our dogs are often confused. Therefore, it’s much more effective to discipline them in their own language. Thankfully, the canine communication barrier has been breached, and our world is a little more peaceful because of it.
When a dog is pushed to their limits by another dog, they start with a warning: a growl. If that doesn’t get attention, they may snap at the offending dog. This happens 100% of the time in the dog world.
Puppies are controlled by their mother through two distinct sounds. If a pup wanders away, the mother growls. If the pup returns, she whines in a high-pitched, pleasing tone. These two sounds instinctively tell the puppy what’s wrong (growls) and what’s right (whining sounds).
Sure, I felt a little silly trying to mimic a growl. My first attempts were more like a pathetic mewing. But when I got frustrated and let out a loud “AAARRRRGGGHHH,” the puppies immediately stopped in their tracks. I told them to sit, and they did. Then, I praised them in a happy voice, and they were pleased. Simple.
But what if your growling “AAARRRRGGGHHH” approach doesn’t work? A great alternative is placing pennies inside a clean, empty soda can. Dropping the can with authority at their feet grabs their attention. This simple method of discipline works wonders.
Consistency is Key
If your dogs are misbehaving or not listening, we use a noise that resembles a growl. Most of the time, this is enough to get their attention. Afterward, we give them a command like “sit” and praise them when they obey. When they forget who’s in charge, we stand up straight and, with complete authority, drop the can of pennies at their feet, mimicking the natural communication of a snap. This technique is very effective.
Of course, we’re not perfect. You should avoid accidentally hitting your dog with the can of pennies. Also, consistency is vital. If you want your dog to stay off the bed, you can’t invite them up when you’re sick or lonely, only to scold them later for jumping up.
Disciplining a dog should never involve force or violence. While discipline can maintain a certain level of leadership in your household, using violence won’t make your dog respect you. In fact, your dog will continually vie for leadership. Others who witness your violence toward your dog won’t respect you either. You’re an intelligent human being, and I’m sure you can outwit your dog with your more intelligent brain rather than using physical force.
Dogs can be as frustrating as they are loving and devoted. Dealing with dog discipline requires patience and a willingness to try different approaches. The methods mentioned here have been proven effective time and time again. While you may try to mimic what you see on television, remember that they don’t always show you all the tricks of the trade. After all, why would they want to give it all away?
Next time you’re disciplining your dog, try these simple communication techniques. See if you can catch their attention, improve their behavior, and reward them for their efforts. It may take a few tries, depending on your dog’s level of dominance, but those who practice consistently and remain firm can successfully alter their dog’s undesirable behaviors in the long run.
