https://www.professorshouse.com/is-the-marriage-worth-saving/ Sat, 22 Feb 2025 21:45:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://www.professorshouse.com/is-the-marriage-worth-saving/#comment-23448 Fri, 10 Nov 2017 16:17:27 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10356#comment-23448 Going through a tough time with my husband when he wanted to leave because he was unhappy was devastating! We had 2 young children. He said he thought he would be happier if we split. We did counseling and I realized that his issues were just that, his issues. Coming from a broken home and having a pretty unsupportive family growing up made him a disfunctional adult that wouldn’t allow him to enjoy life the way I wanted to enjoy it. I sacrificed a lot to try and make him happy…15 years to be exact! Once I realized that I was making myself miserable trying to make him happy, I decided to focus on my own happiness and keeping my kids happy. We split and now I’m enjoying life, making friends, trying new hobbies and having fun with the kids….I give him credit for giving this to me. Meanwhile he’s sleeping on a friend’s couch and doesn’t see the kids as much as he said he would. I hope he’s in therapy working out his “happiness” because he was in the way of his own happiness. Always remember you are in control of your own happiness!

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