What is the best way to spend a romantic evening with someone you admire? Whether it’s your spouse of two decades or a new person in your life, a romantic movie can really set the mood. If you’ve been married for 20 years, chances are you’re way past the honeymoon phase… but popping in a romantic movie will keep the two of you laughing all the way to the bedroom! And hey, who doesn’t love a good love story now and then? If you’ve been caught up in primetime thrillers and CNN as your nightly source of entertainment, it might be time to dip into something a little softer! Why not choose one (or two) hits from this comprehensive romantic movie list?
Don’t underestimate the power of a romantic flick!
And wait! Before you even think your manly man is too tough for a romantic movie, check this out. Reuters, known for conducting psychological polls, ran a survey to determine if chick flicks were just for women. The results? Let’s just say there are more than a few guys who secretly love romantic movies just as much as the next girl. Of course, the reasons might be different. Perhaps men realize that watching these films with the women in their lives shows compassion. And what better way to preface a request to go out with the guys than, “Babe, you know I love you. I just watched The Notebook with you!”
Of course, there’s that little thing guys might believe—that watching a romantic movie with their partner could heat things up before it’s over. (And yes, this works, guys!) Believe it or not, preparing for romance is definitely easier when it starts with something like Titanic instead of March Madness basketball.
So who’s ready for a romantic movie, especially one from this female-curated list of the most romantic movies to watch on a date? Anyone?
The first few movies might seem boring if you don’t recognize the love themes at their core. As mentioned earlier, The Notebook is a must-see. And what could be more exciting than a love story about the haves and the have-nots? The movie’s narration of the events is touching, and as always, love triumphs in the end.
Titanic earns a firm number two spot. Come on, people—it’s a timeless classic, and even kids know the story. What could be more powerful than a story of survival mixed with love? We all know how the real Titanic ended, but love is stronger than even an unsinkable ship.
Another top pick is Dirty Dancing. If you can get past some of the cheesy lines, like “Nobody puts Baby in a corner,” you’ll at least learn how to dance. This classic fairy tale will have you laughing and wishing for a man as bold and wild as Patrick Swayze. And for the guys, there are plenty of gorgeous women in pretty dresses to keep your attention!
Gone with the Wind—though long and a bit dated—is an epic love story set during the Civil War. The relationship between Scarlett and Rhett Butler is one that resonates with many. Not marrying the one person who truly captured your heart, only to regret it for a lifetime, is both heartbreaking and bittersweet. It might even lead to an impromptu make-out session.
Pretty Woman, starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere, is another classic “have-nots find love” story where love wins in the end. The characters are interesting, and there’s plenty of humor to keep even the guys entertained. Plus, the love scenes are hot and leave just enough to the imagination!
If you love old movies, then Casablanca should definitely be on your list. Things don’t end as expected in this film, making it a perfect choice for anyone contemplating running away with the love of their life.
When Harry Met Sally is another fantastic romantic film that every couple should watch together. And yes, Meg Ryan’s fake orgasm scene is one that every man should see—it’ll make him question whether all those sounds in the bedroom are real or not.
And there’s more! If you have kids and want to be reminded of just how challenging divorce can be, check out Mrs. Doubtfire. Father of the Bride is another one that’ll have any father (or father-to-be) tied up in knots. Other classics like Message in a Bottle, Maid in Manhattan, Dying Young, Romancing the Stone, Sleeping with the Enemy, You’ve Got Mail, and Ghost all have the power to make you feel the love!
The reason romantic movie lists are so popular is simple: they show us something we can all relate to. Yes, love is confusing and complex, but it’s also the most rewarding experience. Whether you’re a man or a woman, you just can’t get enough of it. And hey, if you really want to make things interesting, try renting a horror flick! Turn down the lights, light some candles, grab a blanket, and get ready for some close moments in the dark… chances are, you’ll both end up touching!