Comments on: Should the Frequency of Sex be Included In Wedding Vows https://www.professorshouse.com/should-the-frequency-of-sex-be-included-in-wedding-vows/ Thu, 20 Feb 2025 17:42:35 +0000 hourly 1 By: David Symonds https://www.professorshouse.com/should-the-frequency-of-sex-be-included-in-wedding-vows/#comment-1067872 Wed, 29 Jun 2022 18:42:38 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=11326#comment-1067872 I wonder why sex is not included in the marriage vows – maybe Registrars or Clergy refer to it? I don’t think it should be automatic and people should be free to do “it” or not as it takes them, sex should be voluntary. Again, people are not good or bad just because of sex, in fact people shouldn’t have to justify themselves at all for this. Some like it, others do not. That is life. I was told by a Doctor years ago that “you should think of yourself as a sexual animal”. Are we no better than dumb animals in the jungle? Surely we are worth better than that? Sorry.

]]> By: David Symonds https://www.professorshouse.com/should-the-frequency-of-sex-be-included-in-wedding-vows/#comment-1067511 Mon, 20 Jun 2022 08:57:28 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=11326#comment-1067511 I have been married for 21 years and am v unhappy. My wife is sex mad and that is all she cares about. We have had psycho-sexual counselling but i actually hate sex and any form of intimacy. She is using this as a stick to beat me with and is always aggressive and have had verbal abuse. I don’t think couples have to justify themselves by sticking bits into each other – ie intercourse, which makes me feel sick. I think sex and love are two different things and for people to be judged by sexual performance male or female is shameful. Why cannot sex be voluntary? It is all bull.

Marriage just simply isn’t worth it. It is basically two things- being controlled by one partner and sex or more particularly intercourse, which is basically lust. Marriage isn’t a relationship of equals where one person can demand sex whether the other person wants it or not. I have found that sex is in fact porn and nothing else. Why do people have to judge each other on their sexual or non sexual performance alone? Pathetic. Religions are at fault too for encouraging it, they may as well include mention of sex in the marriage ritual. !
Sorry, lets have celibacy in life, marriage too. Sex doesn’t make people better or worse and it proves nothing! Sorry

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