If a woman has a choice to be a mother; a man should have the choice to be a father.

Both agree to having sex… it doesn’t just take a penis to get pregnant.. it takes a vagina too.

Makes no sense after a mutually agreed upon act results in a one way decision on what happens next.

Makes zero sense that the woman has all the rights when it comes to wether or not she wants to be a parent or can afford to be a parent or is in the right stage of life to be a parent and the man has zero say in any of it.

The laws are not equal in this regard and need to be challenged and the women who trap men in this way are the evilest most selfish humans of all. No one wins and the child suffers the most.

Thank You, Landonia! I think I endured so much more pain from this woman than her babytrapping thru the years. I don’t think I will find another woman as I just want to spend the rest of my life in peace and quiet doing the things I love and ensure my son’s raised well (healthy, happy, safe, strong, well-adjusted, empathetic and resourceful).

Thank You for such a kind response, LotharoftheHillPeople! I don’t know where you’re and if you navigated thru the pandemic safe but I hope you’re well and living a good life. In regards to this babytrapping case, against all my well-wishers inputs, I went against it and decided to get the woman back into my life and boy o boy, that’s another mistake but done with a reason. She’s a bottomless pit, made false cheating accusations all the time, kept disrespecting and comparing me to her 1st ex and all the other men around, behaves nasty and using my son in the middle to get what she wants. We’re now dealing with custody and I am glad I went thru this experience b/c I think I am stronger now mentally. I absolutely love my son and simply told her now that my revenge on her is to simply live the best life I could for myself and raise my son the way I want him to be raised devoid of toxicity and abuse!

We don’t use them cause wifey said it is not a common practice in her religion. I don’t want kids as I am an older man

I am a product from the selfish parents. My mother wanted kids cause all her friends had kids, the father was 57 when I turned one. There was no consideration, just self interest. She thought having me would fix their marriage, again, putting self needs before your own children. Saving grace was that they did not abandon me even though they were in a ONE way relationship. Very difficult to watch and lived in a tense environment.

Don’t wine and complain when you knock a chick up and are legally required to pay for them for the next 18 years then 😂 your choice buddy

Your comments are ridiculous and pathetic. So you are saying if a man wants to be safe from getting trapped that they should get a vasectomy, even though one day they may want to have children with the eventual right partner. Basically, the only safe way of not having children with a female when you have clearly told them you don’t want children with them is not to have penetrative sexual intercourse at all. Get real you feminist moron!

Where is your morality? Everything you wrote makes you look so “CHEAP.” What kind of a human being are you? You speak as if you behavior is something to be admired, well it is not. You are “used damaged goods.” Your tactics and thinking are like a little kid’s. Find yourself by making yourself over with qualities to be admired, as something to be proud of then you can find a good man to keep by him loving who you are for yourself ( not some fake) . This is the only way to truly find happiness in yourself, or you can go along life as some kind of a “leech,” sucking at innocent people. And they are innocent because you are playing a dishonest game with them that can destroy lives. And as far as gifts, perks, money, that is stupid. Again, like a little kid’s thinking. In the end, when we die, what will people say about you? You SHOULD care how you look, Think about it, because you are WRONG.

Consent to sex is not consent to have a child.

Your comments are ridiculous. Please be logical.
You chose to put your penis into someone else.
A child that has your DNA is the result.
The child has to eat. That takes money. The parents need to pay for the child to eat. It’s a basic expectation that civilized society has of parents, that they feed their children.
That’s why you’re paying. It’s nothing to do with the person you decided to leave your sperm with. It’s about the child. That’s who you’re supporting.
May I suggest that, if you aren’t mature enough to do the basic task of feeding a child you create, that you seek a vasectomy, quickly?