My boyfriend broke it off with me because, I wasn’t ok with her sleeping in the same bed with us. She came in right after we had sex. The following weekend she came in while we were in the middle of it. He would jump up and open the bedroom door. He would sleep in between us. My parents have been married 53 years… I never slept with my dad when I was preteen. I found it very odd and big lack of respect. I was left very confused.

Hopefully by this time as an adult you managed to work out your childhood trauma sleeping alone .

How Dare Everly bitter baby mamas ass and the other one say “ ITS BONDING” your weird selves end up with co-defendant little Jeffrey Dahmers and pretty sure your single mothers. You’ll stay that way too, shame on YOU !!

To Everly;
My husband constantly says his and his ex’s relationship fell to shit because they got NO private time at all due to cosleeping. Yet, here I am, feeling pissed and upset because because I brought it to my husband’s attention that I needed alone time with him in the bed. We had a baby two months ago and the baby doesn’t sleep with us; neither should the other child. It isn’t fair to me or his other kid for that kid to be sleeping with us. It isn’t fair to his other child because I shouldn’t have to be pissed off at him for sleeping with us, and it isn’t fair to me because I need privacy and intimacy. Absolutely not. My feelings will not be shoved down because his ex was an idiot. I shouldn’t have to be pissed off at a child because his mom’s dumb and started a terrible habit with him. Kids need their OWN beds. Kindly go away with your stupid shit.

And here I thought it was to make sure they’re happy human beings.

You lost me when you pulled the Bible into the mix. Then you continue with the mystical mumbo jumbo by way of explanation — these are just your random religious beliefs and have no bearing on the conversation.

Absolutely…. it’s called Discipline. It really works.

I am a 59 year old Southern gal. I grew up with a lot of love and affection from my parents and I knew with all my heart they loved me. My parents were hard workers and we were disciplined at a very young age to help out around the house , as needed, where it was needed. We just KNEW to sleep in OUR own room and OUR own beds and that was perfectly fine with us and we was content with that. My precious Mother always came in our bedroom and hugged us and kissed us and tucked us in bed and said our prayers with us… until we left home. I just don’t agree with parents or grandparents allowing their children/grandchildren sleeping with them. To me, it’s unfair to the hard working parents/grandparents trying to rest and it’s unfair to the children/grandchildren in the long run.. because in there minds they MUST sleep in YOUR bed in order to sleep and that could go on for years and I don’t think it’s good for a marriage. I absolutely love and adore my two sons and my seven grandchildren, but … I too was always a very hard worker having to get up at 3:30 am to get ready for work… so.. I NEVER allowed my children to sleep with me… I love snuggling up with my babies and cuddling with them.. but it’s not logical and it would not work and I would be like a zombie going to work with no sleep. I’m sure y’all are great parents. That’s my opinion.