Comments on: When Divorce Can be a Good Thing https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/ Wed, 23 Oct 2024 13:12:18 +0000 hourly 1 By: David Beart https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-23145 Mon, 23 Oct 2017 11:28:49 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-23145 In reply to Jack.

I’m not sure cheating on your wife to get her attention was such a good idea. Though I could be wrong, here evening the score might be the only way she can cope with the affair.

]]> By: Jack https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-23140 Sun, 22 Oct 2017 22:55:04 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-23140 I cheated on my wife. I want her to see me for the person that I have become and not the person I was. She tells me that she is going to cheat on me and I am not going to know it. Should I leave her or try to work it out?

]]> By: Mike https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-19270 Sun, 28 Aug 2016 17:16:56 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-19270 ps -i actually thought that the article was written from a male perspective…..

]]> By: Mike https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-19269 Sun, 28 Aug 2016 17:15:32 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-19269 Dave, U r hurt, but, she doesnt love u anymore. get over it! move on & be happy. Make new friends, buy a motorcycle, take a vacation and then get back to being super Dad!
Sincerely, married w/ child and soon to be divorcing.

]]> By: David https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-17756 Tue, 12 Jul 2016 17:40:18 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-17756 Sara, I gave been married 30 years. Have 4 kids and up until last July a good marriage. W dropped B on me saying she had no feelings for me, did not love me and wanted a D. A yr and half earlier…discovered she had a 2 yr affair with the next door neighbor….for which I forgave her and was working to restore our marriage…then she dropped the B. I have worked the past 11 mos to try and save our marriage. The W has done nothing except treat me poorly or without kindness/love. I treat her with kindness and love. She says she is now at peace with her decision. Really? At peace with a decision that has caused pain to her, me, our kids, our families and friends? Divorce is selfish!

]]> By: Sara A https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-17750 Tue, 12 Jul 2016 13:18:53 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-17750 you don’t know any thing david about married life so please don’t judge until u had the experience.

]]> By: david https://www.professorshouse.com/when-divorce-can-be-a-good-thing/#comment-15936 Sun, 12 Jun 2016 14:14:13 +0000 https://professorshouse.com/?p=10364#comment-15936 Obviously this is written by a woman who is clueless about the concept of comittment in a marriage. The BS on the internet that suggests anything good about a D (exception is physical abuse of any kind or serious emotional abuse) is pure BS posted by people who are selfish and self-centered in such a way that all the pain they cause by iniitating and going thru with a D is justiifed so they can be happy. BS

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